Really upset about this: Apparently, rapper Cardi B‘s concert last night at Rolling Loud was interrupted by her soon-to-be-ex Offset, who apologized, flowers and card in hand, for his bad ways. Some of her staff and even the club were complicit.
Mi gente, you don’t have to like or dislike Carbi B – I am on the fence myself – to understand this is STALKING.
The two are divorcing, yet he was allowed on stage, within inches of her, to interrupt the performance. He could have hidden a gun in the flowers and shot her. This is so irresponsible on so many levels. She needs to:
1) Fire the staff who was in on the stunt.
2) Put others on notice.
3) Get a restraining order against Offset.
4) Hire a lawyer to take action against Rolling Loud for endangerment and its lack of professionalism.
Wouldn’t hurt to hold a press conference denouncing the whole thing. We could be reading a different headline this morning.
Cardi B defended Offset in a post on Instagram, saying she didn’t want to bash her baby’s father. “That’s a nasty feeling and I wouldn’t want that. I know how painful it is when you have millions of people bashing you every single day. I don’t like that,” she said.
She is being kind in her interpretation. Some people may think Offset was being “romantic.” No, no, no, no no. That requires a skewed definition of romance. Here’s info on stalking from victimsofcrime.org, in case you have doubts.
Some things stalkers do:
- Follow you and show up wherever you are.
- Send unwanted gifts, letters, cards, or e-mails.
- Damage your home, car, or other property.
- Monitor your phone calls or computer use.
- Use technology, like hidden cameras or global positioning systems (GPS), to track where you go.
- Drive by or hang out at your home, school, or work.
- Threaten to hurt you, your family, friends, or pets.
- Find out about you by using public records or online search services, hiring investigators, going through your garbage, or contacting friends, family, neighbors, or co-workers.
- Posting information or spreading rumors about you on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth.
- Other actions that control, track, or frighten you.